Although I have always interacted with hearing people, I did not live with one until my freshman year of college. It was quite the experience at first. I had anticipated frustrations, challenges and lots of awkward moments. Needless to say, it was not what I had expected. Haley and I lived with mutual respect and understanding. Communication was generally very easy and superficial. My sophomore roommate, Caroline was a bit different. Even though we are great friends, living with her was not quite what I had expected. I think this time, it had to do with the living environment. We had a wall that split our room into two. She had her space and I had mine. And we lived in the dorms. So it wasn’t necessarily living together. We also had different circles of friends.
This year is the year that has really put things into perspective. Hearing people are so fascinating! My roommates, Mary Beth and Sarah both are huge fans of music and in particular, Taylor Swift. They play music as much as they can, especially when cooking or eating or pretty much anytime they’re in the apartment. Sometimes I feel a bit left out watching them belt out the words to the song. Living with two hearing people certainly is different than living with one hearing person. The conversations are a bit faster paced but lively. They have unknowingly made me a better listener. As they converse, I work hard to read their lips and listen. Externally, it may seem that I am listening as intently as I always have, but internally, I struggle. It is not their fault; it’s just the way things are.
I’ll admit that I was nervous about living with them. I realize that I require a bit more attention and help than the average roommate. Initially, I did not want to test their patience, see how much of my deafness they could handle. Fortunately, I was being ridiculous. My worries and fears diminished the second I felt their warm welcome.
Living with a deaf family has its advantages, staying up late and making as much noise possible are two of the great advantages. Mary Beth and I had a bit of a squabble about the annoying things we did. I would close the door a bit too loudly in the morning when I would go off to class and she would turn on the bathroom light when I was headed to bed. So far, these mini issues have been fixed.
Funny story – Apparently, I brush my teeth in a very weird way. I brush my teeth in a certain way which doesn’t seem normal. According to my roommates, it sounds very circular and slow, much unlike theirs. It was then when I realized that I had learned things in a completely different way. Most children learn certain things such as teeth brushing through sound and model it as they heard it whereas I did not.
These lovely ladies have changed my life so much over such a short period of time. I owe them much gratitude. I cannot believe a semester has already flown by. Each day I spend with them, I feel incredibly lucky. Recently, I noticed Sarah becoming more conscious of how to make things easier for me in terms of communication. We were walking back from the BSC with another friend and he was telling a story. Sarah walked in between me and him, suddenly, she walked over to the other side of our friend because she knew it would make it easier for me to lip read Geoff. While that moment may seem like a typical thing to her, it meant the world to me. That single act of kindness showed me the trueness of our friendship. Mary Beth has always been such a great friend of mine, but it seems that living with her has strengthened that bond. Both Mary Beth and Sarah have been learning sign language throughout the semester and it has been so much fun signing with them. When we go out with multiple friends and I get lost in the craziness of things, I know I can look over to one of them and they would rescue me. For that, I am forever grateful. I will always hold them dear to my heart, no matter what happens in the future. They truly are amazing, beautiful, and wonderfully weird women. I am proud to call them my roommates and great friends.
In the words of Winnie the Pooh “If you live to be 100, I hope I live 100 minus 1 day, so I never have to live without you.”






When I returned back to the US, one of the most common questions asked were "Which country is your favorite?" I know that I have said so much about each place I visited and each time I said that I loved the country more than the last one. No matter where I went, the grass was always greener. Even though I went to so many fabulous places and spent hours exploring in each place, there is no way to see it all. Don't get me wrong, I am beyond grateful for being able to experience everything I experienced in the past four months.
Four months in Europe, that's all it took. Four months in Europe changed my life, my perspective of how the world works and what makes it spin round and round. I can only wait until my return to Europe. I hope it is sooner, rather than later. 
The picture above is her backyard, what appears to be yellow flowers are actually rape seeds (yes, rape) and the house in the back is in France, so according to my passport, I have been to France once, but I really have been to France twice!
Lake Geneva is absolutely beautiful, unfortunately it was cloudy most of the time, so I was unable to really capture the beauty of the lake and the mountains in the background. There were beautiful lilac flowers everywhere near the lake, the purple was so rich, it made the sky so much bluer.


I pictured Europe as a continent filled with quaint villages and shops like the picture below. Yvoire was full of them and it felt like I was in a completely different world.













On the way to Interlaken, I made a friend! I do not know his name, but he surely was not too shy to come by and say hello. It made my train ride :)

























As I hiked back to the gondola, I nearly killed a living creature. It scared the heck out of me. I was trying to beat the rain and this poor poor creature just happened to be in my path and good thing I was looking down before I stepped or else there would have been an ugly swishy/cracky sound. It was a snail! A really big one too! I've never seen one so big and pretty before and naturally, I took a lot of pictures. I probably scared it with my camera and heavy breathing. Yes, I got down on my knees and took a ton of close up shots.
As I traveled through Switzerland I noticed that there are four flags that tend to appear everywhere. One is the national flag of Switzerland and I believe the other three are flags that recognize the different cultural parts of Switzerland: Swiss-German, Swiss-French and Swiss-Italian.
To get to the liftoff site, we have to take a short hike. The view is breathtaking, especially when the sun is shining and the clouds are not quite as prominent.
(Above) The exact spot where I ran to take my first paraglide flight, wouldn't you say it was such a big improvement now that the sun shone and the clouds were not hovering?



